Summer weather forever

"What's not to love about the weather!?"

By this point I had a look on my face somewhere between shock and annoyance. Why were we arguing about the weather? Who cares, forget the weather, that's not the point. The weather is never the reason to have a conversation, unless you're a meteorologist, and really even then.

"Tim that's not what I'm saying at all, the weather is fine for what it is. It's just a combination..."

"No, you said why can't we have distinct seasons like other places," he interrupted. "Where else on earth can you have mid nineties weather in October? I could go to the beach on Halloween while the rest of America is stuck inside getting warm."

I gave up. There was no sense going on with it. I sank back into a chair while he stood red faced and triumphant that our disagreement had produced no viable base for my supposed view.

"Listen, I like the beach as much as everybody but don't you get tired of summer by the fourth or fifth month?" I pleaded as a last ditch effort to stalemate him. "I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm just a little sick of it."

What I didn't say was that I was tired of this place.

I saw a few of my other friends motion to each other for a smoke - a mute hand gesture like a horizontal peace sign kissing the lips- and decided to follow.

Outside the warm air was calm, dead, like the doldrums in old pirate stories. The doldrums represented a certain type of death. A lack of breeze, a lack of movement. Dead in the water as the saying goes. They each lit a cigarette and I asked for one myself.

The smoke hung in the air like spindly webbing and the nicotine hit my bloodstream after a few puffs.

"You feeling good Evan?"

"Yeah I think so, man."

There was a few moments of silence and peace. But peace, like a nicotine buzz, can only last so long.

"Do you ever feel stuck, Sean?"

"All the time Evan, all the time." he said.

"What do you do about it? Because it's all I think about anymore." I said.

He looked down at the ground and sucked his cigarette to the filter before flicking it out in a plastic painters bucket. For a second he just smiled at me, holding his breath.

"I just wait it out," he said finally as smoke flowed with his words. "That's all we really can do I think."

We all came back inside again. I wished they would turn on the air, it was getting uncomfortably warm in the living room with everyone else.

Sometimes the doldrums would last only a few days. The wind would pick up and the sail would furl with the power of the air. Pushing onward toward the goal, with minimal time lost. Other times they lasted for months and even if the breeze finally arrived it was too late. At what point do you get on a raft and row; hoping to hit an island or another shipping lane? The hardest part would be watching the ship blip out of existence as it crossed the horizon. The last comfort zone, a bastion of relief and familiarity no longer within reach.

Sometimes it takes a deadly calm to realize it's time to make a move. And that was the day I decided, for sure, not to wait it out.